Frequency matters.

I find excessive spending by the 4 women in my marriage best considered, when broken down daily, or weekly.

Otherwise I find myself hyperventilating a lot.

A 500 quid trip to Sephora by the wife and 3 daughters, for ‘vital makeup’ is reasonable when divided by 365 and 4.

In between this trip and the one last week, there was a BJ. So that clears the slate for me.

Just as this trip clears the slate of failed attempts by me, to load the dishwasher, for her.

That’s my advice